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I’m a big fan of Christmas. I love all the lights and decorations, the holiday music, putting up a tree, wrapping up presents, going to holiday get-togethers, and eating way too many Christmas cookies. It makes me happy, brings a smile to my face, and puts a little joy in my heart.
But what it doesn’t do is stress me out over holiday shopping! Let’s be honest here – I love to shop any time of the year. It doesn’t bother me to go to the mall, to find a cute little boutique, or to hunt down a charming locally owned shop. It’s fun for me. As is picking out the perfect gift for someone.
This process has led me to realize that there isn’t a whole lot that I need at Christmas time – at least in the way of presents. I’m blessed to be gainfully employed in a job that I enjoy and to be earning money blogging about travel (my passion). I have a roof over my head, clothes on my back, and food on the table. I have everything that I need, and most of what I want. In fact, I really have too much stuff, and am concentrating more on the intangible riches of life – relationships, experiences, and enjoyment.
After purchasing a few gifts, and I mean a very few, I focused my energy and funds on adopting a family that is facing some challenges this Christmas time. The family is an older single mom with a five year old little boy with special needs. This is a family who has challenges every time of the year, and it just shouldn’t be that way at Christmas. Because Christmas is for kids. And that dear, sweet little boy, who faces challenges and complications every day of his life, should wake up on Christmas morning and be able to forget about all of that – even if it’s just for one day. He should find presents beneath his tree and have a Christmas dinner with all the trimmings. And mom, who gives everything to make life better for that little boy, should have some things to make her life easier, too. A few things for around the house, and maybe a special, pretty something that’s all for her.
Today I went shopping for my special adopted family, working from a list that United Way (the agency who matched up the adoption) filled out for them. The list divided up the urgent needs and special wants for each person. Just reading the list made me get all weepy. These requests were so incredibly modest – a shower curtain, socks and underwear, and a hair cut. United Way asks that we get at least one gift for each person, along with providing a holiday meal. One gift just didn’t seem right –- and no one’s Christmas present should just be a shower curtain.
So I went a little crazy. And a bought bunches of stuff. I was like a kid in a candy shop, picking out all the urgent needs, and lots of the special wants as well. I can’t change this family’s circumstances, that is far beyond my ability. But I want this family, so rich in love, to have some tangible riches as well. That I have the ability to do.
If you are blessed this holiday season, give your local United Way a call and ask if they have any more families that need adopting for Christmas. The list is long, the need is high, and chances are there’s a family that could use a little helping hand. Even at this late date, there is a family waiting. . . and hoping. Do it because it feels good. Do it because you don’t need any more stuff. Do it because you’re giving back or paying it forward. Do it because Christmas is for kids. And everyone should get to be a kid at Christmas.
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Posted by Mary Jo on September 19, 2009 · 1 Comment
In no particular order, here are some of the things that I’ve come to love about Italy, and why I’m looking forward to a return trip again next year.

Fields of sunflowers in Tuscany, July 2009
- Sunflowers
- Gelato
- Lake Maggiore
- Isola Madre
- Isola Bella (and yes, I know it’s gaudy and over-the-top)
- Latte de Luna (with wild mushroom soup that’s to-die-for)
- Brunello wine
- Giuseppe and La Montalla
- Florence (so much beautiful art)
- Trevi Fountain in Rome (I threw in 3 coins, just to ensure my return)
- Vatican (history and art, religion and politics)
- Fashion and fashionably dressed men and women
- Cafes and cappuccino
- Hills towns in Tuscany
- Beautiful churches (every town has a dozen)
- Pecorino cheese
- Stopping the car to let sheep cross the road
- The beautiful language (that I must learn)
- Limoncello
- Tomato and onion salad
- Wild boar pasta (actually, any kind of pasta at all!)
- Vineyard and olive orchards
- Cypress trees
- Internet access (yes, in the middle of a vineyard, there’s still wi-fi)
- History and a sense of how very young the U.S. is
What do you love about Italy?
Photo credit: Mary Jo Manzanares
Posted by Mary Jo on August 29, 2009 · Leave a Comment
I was driving on my way to an appointment, when an interview with Ronald Kessler came on the radio. Kessler, a prolific author and former columnist for the Washington Post and the Wall Street Journal, has a new book out, In the President’s Secret Service: Behind the Scenes with Agents in the Line of Fire and the Presidents They Protect . Although a bit too much of the interview was whinging about the Secret Service needing more money (I’m neither agreeing nor disagreeing with that premise), some of the gossipy presidential tidbits grabbed my attention.
I fired up my trusty Kindle, downloaded it, and settled in for a read.
The book was based on interviews that Kessler conducted with over 100 current and former Secret Service agents, including at the management level. In most cases, he names names and provides sources. The absences of sources is missing in some of the more over-the-top anecdotes, making them a little more difficult to attach credence to.
The book traces the birth and evolution of the Secret Service, and how its missions has been honed, and changed, over the years. It’s very clear that Kessler resents the shifting of the Service away from the Treasury Department and over to Homeland Security. Equally clear is his dissatisfaction with the budget allocation that came with that shift. He cites countless examples of weakness and gaps in the protection protocol, and continues the whinging for more money.
What struck me as the difficult question in all of this, is that protectees are looking for less (or perhaps less obtrusive) protection, allowing them to be closer to the people who elect them, at the same time that the Service insists on higher levels of protection and risks at an all time. Until those disparate interests find some middle ground, I don’t see the budget and structural issues of the department getting resolved.
I enjoyed the book, which was a very quick read, for it’s tabloid-like anecdotes about the foibles, misadventures, and lives of Presidents, Vice Presidents, public officials, and their families. It felt a bit voyeuristic at times, but that didn’t stop me from plowing ahead.
I liked the tidbits about how the Service felt about the people who they protected, which in large part seems to be based on how willing the protectee was in complying with their requests. A brief overview below:
- Kennedy – No surprises here as they talk about his infidelities.
- Johnson – A picture of LBJ as a sexual conqueror, and Lady Bird’s turning away and choosing not to see or acknowledge
- Nixon – Despised him, felt pathetic toward Pat and her alcohol issues
- Ford – Not the bumbler that was portrayed in the press, he was actually quite athletically gifted – but very cheap.
- Carter – Hypocrite about using alcohol and carrying his own bags, and examples of brattiness on the part of first daughter Amy.
- Reagan – Loved him, thought him jovial and engaging, but Nancy called the shots.
- Bush I – Both he and Barbara were thought to be charming and caring people.
- Clinton – Loved him as well, and though his caring about people and their situation was honest and real. Always late. Not fond of Hillary at all.
- Bush II – Loved him, and absolutely adored Laura. Many examples of kindness and thoughtfulness expressed toward the service. Always prompt. Also plenty of stories about the first twins.
- Obama – A little too early for complete feedback, but the initial word is that what you see is what you get, except that he hasn’t quit smoking. They appear to love Michelle, citing examples of her kindness toward them. And as for the girls, well, they have to do their homework.
There’s lots of other dirt on public officials, from cabinet members to aides, who’ve made less than stellar choices in their personal life. While it’s mean spirited to say, we love reading this stuff! It’s a little like reading the supermarket tabloids, only in book form.
Interested in buying the book?
